Practical Advice for a Smoother, More Meaningful Wedding Abroad
Eloping in Italy sounds like a dream — and for many couples, it truly is.
From Tuscan hills to Venice canals, the romance feels built-in.
But even a small, intimate celebration can be derailed by simple planning mistakes that steal the focus from what matters: you, your partner, and the experience.
Here are five common missteps to avoid — and what to do instead.
❌ Mistake 1: Trying to Make It “Big, But Small”
You’re eloping… but trying to recreate a full wedding day with:
A packed timeline
12 outfit changes
Styled decor setups
Group dinner, tour, spa day, and boat ride — all in one
✅ Do this instead:
Strip it down. Choose 2–3 core moments and give them space.
The beauty of elopement is in slowness and intention, not scheduling.
❌ Mistake 2: Not Accounting for Tourists or Timing
Italy is stunning — and busy.
Planning vows in front of the Trevi Fountain or Piazza San Marco at 2 pm?
Expect hundreds of strangers.
✅ Do this instead:
Plan early morning or golden hour ceremonies.
Choose lesser-known locations or nearby towns (e.g., elope in Fiesole instead of Florence center).
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❌ Mistake 3: Overlooking Symbolic Ceremonies
Trying to do a legal wedding in Italy without a planner?
You’re in for paperwork, translations, and government delays — even for civil ceremonies.
✅ Do this instead:
Get legally married at home (or in Denmark), then have a symbolic ceremony in Italy.
It looks and feels the same, and you control every moment.
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❌ Mistake 4: Choosing Style Over Meaning
Pinterest can tempt you into choosing what looks impressive, not what feels like you.
Big villa with no intimacy
A designer dress that doesn’t fit the setting
A vendor team that feels like a production crew
✅ Do this instead:
Choose authentic over extravagant.
Pick people and places that make you feel calm, seen, and real.
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❌ Mistake 5: Forgetting to Pause and Breathe
Even small weddings can become overwhelming.
When you're coordinating logistics, travel, timelines, and expectations, you can forget what the day is really about.
✅ Do this instead:
Built in quiet. Take 15 minutes post-ceremony to walk, eat, laugh, or sit together.
Let the camera roll — those are often the most emotional moments.
💭 Final Thought
Eloping in Italy should feel like your love story, not a checklist.
Avoid these common mistakes and your day will feel lighter, calmer, and more connected — exactly how it should be.
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